This essay will set some people off, but I don’t care. My brother
died of a hand gun incident in 1987 when he was 17 years old, and my
family has not been the same ever since. So, I want to talk about it.
This conversation is way over due. I have decided that I will speak out
publically every new time an outrage like this happens.
The gun episode on the first day of school (Sept 2012) at Perry Hall High School
was a shock to most of us. It was a traumatic event to those witnessing
or injured as a result. And it is still reverberating through the
community. I learned that there was a meeting at the school a few days
later to for parents to ask questions. This is the responsible thing for
the school to do. I learned about it after the fact. Now granted, I
don’t have children attending this school, but I do live in this
neighborhood, and I want to know what’s going on here in Perry hall.
This phase of the healing is about comforting the victims, parents
and students close to this tragedy. I respect that and I can wait my
turn. But I want to know what’s going on. I don’t want to simply be
appeased.
When I went to school in the 1960’s and 1970’s no one brought guns to
school. We need to understand what has changed and we need to talk
about what we need to change about how we are responding.
It is time to start community conversations about how we as a
community can deal with this situation. There will be those who will
want to point out why this is proof that we should all carry guns. And
there will be those who think we should confiscate all guns because they
cause too much injury, death and havoc.
I am not advocating either position at this point. Even though my
brother died in an act of violence I realize the need to keep a calm and
patient voice. Truthfully I am afraid of people carrying guns on the
street and I am equally afraid of a world in which the government has
all the guns.
We need to find a better approach to this problem. Who has some new ideas?
We need to talk about solution and not make accusations based on polarized positions.